Two Decades Successfully Completed, and Still Counting....

The Nostalgia

2011-11-13T05:57:00.001-08:00

Ever wondered what would you give to go back in time – to undo what has already been done? A few days ago, I would have said who cares about the past – Ask me now, and the answer would turn out to be two worlds apart. The justification is simple and straight-forward: a few days ago, I was amongst the people I love the most in the world – the people I know would do absolutely anything for me. And today, I am in a place where I need to spot people who barely match my frequency – and trust me – that ain’t easy!

As I reach the ‘Land of Dreams’, I figure I should be excited. It’s a new place – a new life – a chance of a lifetime…but as I travel in the cab gazing at the scenic beauty of this place, I wonder if it’s all worth it. I know it’s gonna be – am not denying it – not even one bit – but right now – at this precise moment – I doubt! For the people are different, and the place a surprise at every corner. I just wish it to be alright – to get it over with – to be home again – to be back to the feeling of not caring about the past.

The ‘Saturday’ Night

2011-10-15T12:38:00.001-07:00

I.
It's Saturday night, I'm ironing my shirts. Oh, don't feel sorry for me. I do go out, at odd times, when other people work, when you work, when you think your girlfriend is at work. Don't blame me. It's just a thing she does, like scratching herself shortly after she wakes up. It is inconsequential: She's still sitting next to you on the couch, although we have met earlier today. But you know, the real difference between the two of us is knowledge. I know how she smells, but you will never know how I smell, because she tells me not to wear cologne when we meet.

II.
So because I didn't answer your message, you think I'm arrogant, you're good-looking and you know it, you say. I'll tell you something: You don't know anything. You don't know how much it costs to be me. Not financially, dear me, no, although those polo shirts are indeed quite expensive. No, I'm talking about emotional costs. Do you know how hard it is to keep up the attitude, to pretend everything's cool when you would like to scream? But i can't scream, the people I hang out with would not like that. So I keep smiling and pretending, and I keep laughing at you, because it keeps me from crying.

III.
Finally Crescendo. Can you feel the music swelling, the lights brightening? It's the moment I've been waiting for, all those long hours at the gym, in front of mirrors, at the barber's, at clothing stores and in my bathroom. And when you look at me, bewildered, admiring, fascinated, I look at her, straight into her eyes. Yes, it's been worth all that. I got her. This moment may be ephemeral, and yet it's eternal: It's my moment of glory, the light I bask in, even when I'm back home on a Saturday night, ironing my shirts.

My Mood Series - The 'Farewell' Edition

2011-09-29T22:38:00.000-07:00

Hi,

My friends, no one, not in my situation, can appreciate how I feel at this parting. Over the past few days, People have asked me how I feel about all of this….they say that it must be sad leaving behind so many friends....or at least Bitter Sweet. And I wonder, Can miles truly separate you from friends... If you want to be with someone you love, aren't you already there? Because the friends I made will be with me through sickness and in health. I am certain of it. And so I say, No…It’s Not Bitter…It’s all sweet.

I have come across some extra-ordinary people in the last 3 years of my life…they are amazing thinkers, superbly talented individuals – but above all – excellent human beings. And I have been nothing but honored to have gotten an opportunity to know them, and work with them. And that’s why I owe everything to this place and to the kindness of its people. I am humbled by their humanity, and am extremely thankful for all the love that they have shown towards me.

Hence, My Mood Today: In Deep Gratitude

When I was a kid, I read this Dr. Seuss Book where Horton the elephant, on saying Good Bye to the Mayor, and to the spec universe he just helped save, says, “Don’t Cry because it’s over, Smile because it happened.” And that’s exactly what I intend to do today. Let’s not cry because it’s over…let’s simply smile because it happened.

Having said that, I hope you will continue to love me the way you always have and remember me in times of Joy and sorrow. I know that we will be parted by distance, but with technology heaving on almost everything, proximity isn’t just accountable anymore. We can, and will, connect online at: gdswalia@hotmail.com or on Facebook! And if you’re blogger, be sure to read about me at my Blog. Or better still….just GOOGLE me! ;)

Yes, it’s time for me to say Farewell….but No, I will not say Good Bye…I will just say, “Until we meet again.”
To God be the glory.

Your friend for Life,
Gagan

P.S: This is the LAST one! :D
P.P.S: Owing to Huge amount of competition in the market, the telephone companies have slashed their prices…so feel free to call, whenever - wherever @ 09739398480, until advised otherwise!
P.P.P.S: You can count on me, like One Two Three, I’ll be there, and I know when I need it I can count on you, like four three two, And You’ll be there…’cause that’s what friends are supposed to do, Oh YEAH!
P.P.P.P.S: Kyun? Kyunki har ek friend zaroori hota hai! ;)

My Mood Series: S3E9 - Victor!

2011-09-27T23:29:00.000-07:00

Hi and Good Morning.

Welcome to My World! This is Edition # 9 of “My Mood Series: Season 3”

There are two kinds of Managers in this world – One, the kind who takes all the credit to themselves, leaving behind his team of dedicated hard-workers who did all the real work and keep them in the dark, and Two – the kind who believes his strength lies in the strength of his team, and his talent in theirs. I am honored to be working under the latter category of Bosses, and Boy! Am I glad! In my last few days at work here, I just wanted to tell him that he is simply awesome, and that I look up to him – for everything. It is for people like him that I, and most of you, love to wake up every morning and show up for work at their very best! And that’s because they make you feel like a winner – a Victor!

Hence, My Mood Today: Victor!

Charles Wilson, former US Secretary of Defense, once quoted, “A good boss makes his men realize they have more ability than they think they have so that they consistently do better work than they thought they could”. I am glad and relieved that I feel absolutely the same way! J

Have a great day Guys!

Love,
Gagan
P.S: This edition was supposed to come out yesterday, but some wise men blocked my Outbox. My Apologies! J
P.P.S: Just 2 More to go! J

My Mood Series: S3E8 - Blessed!

2011-09-25T23:29:00.000-07:00

Hi and Good Morning.

Welcome to My World! This is Edition # 8 of “My Mood Series: Season 3”

In a lifetime, one meets several people and over the due course of time, forms a bond with them – A bond that tightens and grows stronger with time and proximity, and empowers to go out of one’s self, and appreciate whatever is noble and loving in another. It is indeed one of God’s best gifts, friends that is. I felt that power when my friends recently pulled off a Surprise Farewell Spectacular for me, and I was completely thrown off guard. That was the moment when I fully – truly – deeply felt Blessed.

Hence, My Mood Today: Blessed!

A very wise Novelist Charles Kingsley once said, “A blessed thing it is for any man or woman to have a friend, one human soul whom we can trust utterly, who knows the best and worst of us, and who loves us in spite of all our faults”. I am just glad to have so many…and Thank God for that! J

Have a great day Guys!

Love,
Gagan
P.S: My last Monday in Bangalore! J

My Mood Series: S3E7 - In High Spirits!

2011-09-22T22:42:00.000-07:00

Hi and Good Morning.

Welcome to My World! This is Edition # 7 of “My Mood Series: Season 3”

The Oxford Dictionary defines the word “Team” as a group of individuals that have the ability to work together toward a common mission – a mission that is important to the common interests of the individuals involved in the team. Such was our mission when we headed out to one of the amusement parks yesterday for a Team-Building Event. And Boy! Was the mission accomplished or what! I had an awesome time – of course, it could have been better had a-certain-few also joined us – but it was a fantastic day – One of those days after which you feel tired, yet fantastic – as if you are in high spirits.

Hence, My Mood Today: In High Spirits!

Teams are certainly a significant part of your growth as an individual, but what is even more significant is to have excellent individuals as a part of your team. It becomes the fuel that allows common people to attain uncommon results. I am blessed with a wonderful group that I can proudly call My Team – I know I will be an Ex member soon enough – but the memories will definitely live forever! Now that’s a High-Spirited thought! J

Have a great day Guys!

Love,
Gagan
P.S: Only 5 more to go! J

My Mood Series: S3E6 - Satisfied!

2011-09-20T22:05:00.000-07:00

Hi and Good Morning.

Welcome to My World! This is Edition # 6 of “My Mood Series: Season 3”

For people who set out of the comforts of their homes to go to an all new city for work would know this: The people you choose to stay with become your family at that place, for as long as you’re there. They become important – because they become the most critical source of contact for you – no matter what happens. They, indeed, become your support system at the new place – and in the new life that you’ve chosen for yourself. I, too, am blessed with wonderful people around me. And last night, we three cracked up like crazy on something that on any other regular day would have been just mundane! I felt a feeling of Satisfaction – that I was at the right place, with the right people – that I was Home!

Hence, My Mood Today: Satisfied!

Good Roommates become a blessing for anyone who has them. It does create a fun sense of family…and that’s something that is important to everyone. Things can get very lonely without it, and that’s the last thing anyone would ever want. They give you a certain feeling of satisfaction – that everything is alright – a feeling that only a hot bubble bath was known to provide! :D

Have a great day Guys!

Love,
Gagan
P.S: Only 7 more to go! J

My Mood Series: S3E5 - Rejuvenated!

2011-09-19T22:48:00.000-07:00

Hi and Good Morning.

Welcome to My World! This is Edition # 5 of “My Mood Series: Season 3”

For every one who has been to Bangalore at least once in their lifetime is most definitely aware of one thing: That the weather here is absolutely fantastic. And why wouldn’t it be...it rains almost every day, and the breeze is as cool and soothing as a cucumber on the face on a hot sunny day - REFRESHING! J So for anyone who is asked the question of what they’ll miss the most when leaving this city….there is one common answer – The Weather! I, too, am smitten by what the city has to offer in terms of its weather – for I love the rains, and so, it is like a honeymoon destination for me – as far as the weather is concerned (ONLY! :D). This city makes me feel – umm, what’s the word – Ah! Rejuvenated!

Hence, My Mood Today: Rejuvenated!

The very wise German Poet ‘Goethe’ once exclaimed, “We must always change, renew and rejuvenate ourselves; otherwise we harden”. And stoned and hardened at the heart is the last thing anyone would want to be – no matter what!

Have a great day Guys!

Love,
Gagan
P.S: Only 8 more to go! J

My Mood Series: S3E4 - Hopeful

2011-09-18T22:19:00.000-07:00

Hi and Good Morning.

Welcome to My World! This is Edition # 4 of “My Mood Series: Season 3”

The only day in the week that brings about a major mood swing in almost everybody has to be a Monday. The reason is simple: You work through the previous week thinking that you’d get the weekend to relax…but when the weekend arrives…you have plans to party. Therefore, all the frustration comes out when you get up and get ready for work on a Monday morning. I felt the same way today, but then I had an epiphany…if I get through today….I will have one less Monday to worry about. So, I decided I wouldn’t be negative…I would, instead, be hopeful that the weekend arrives early…and that it brings along a lot of Joy.

Hence, My Mood Today: Hopeful!

A grumpy face affects not only you, but everyone you encounter throughout the day. Why take the burden of ruining their day, when you can simply make yours better by smiling and being hopeful. Smile, and see how the face next to you lights up. J

Have a Great Monday Guys!

Love,

Gagan
P.S: Only 9 more to go! J

My Mood Series: Season 3 - Edition # 3

2011-09-16T23:29:00.000-07:00

Hi and Good Morning.

Welcome to My World! This is Edition # 3 of “My Mood Series: Season 3”

Once upon a time, when I was a little boy…I was told that I needed to study hard in school so that when I grow up, I won’t have to struggle as much. I was also told, that when I grow up and start working, there will be two days in a week where I would not be required to work, but still would be paid for. Those two days would be called “The Weekend!”.
Fast-forward to present day - and the calendar next to me reads: “17-September-2011, SATURDAY”, and I am in my office…Working! K

Hence, My Mood Today: Stunned!

I am not saying that it is bad to work … all I’m trying to point out to is the fact that this weekend doesn’t really count…I mean….why would it be called a Weekend unless you spend it doing something completely pointless! Think about it!

Have a Great (not) Saturday guys! :D

Love,
Gagan

My Mood Series: Season 3 - Edition # 2

2011-09-15T22:52:00.000-07:00

Hi and Good Morning.

Welcome to My World! This is Edition # 2 of the Brand New “My Mood Series: Season 3”

There are times when you achieve something, and you are proud of yourself - you feel that there can be no other feeling that can top this. And then there comes a time when your best friend achieves something absolutely fantastic, and you immediately realize that this feeling is better than the one you had before! I had such enlightenment lately when my Best friend told me about something absolutely brilliant that he achieved … and I am simply happy and proud of him.

Hence, My Mood Today: Happy and Proud!

It is nice to tell your friend that you are there for him….at times of happiness, and of sorrow!

I read this beautiful line in ‘Winnie the Pooh’ recently about friendship and how having a friend beside you makes you feel. And I quote:

Piglet sidled up to Pooh from behind. "Pooh!" he whispered. "Yes, Piglet?". "Nothing," said Piglet, taking Pooh’s paw. "I just wanted to be sure of you." J

Have a great “Happy & Friendly” day guys!

Love,
Gagan

It Starts NOW! My Mood Series: Season 3 - Edition # 1

2011-09-15T11:29:00.000-07:00

Hi and Good Morning.

Welcome to My World! This is edition # 1 of the Brand New "My Mood Series: Season 3"

For many months now, I have been constantly asked one common question: "Why did I stop drawing?" And all I could answer was: "I've been busy!" When the same question was last asked, I went into a dilemma…I was confused because the people who have been posing the same question again and again were all my well-wishers…they asked because they cared – about me – and about things that mattered to me. And I couldn't get hold of the feeling that was arousing in me… until yesterday! For it was a moment when I realized…that it was just Love that forced them to ask….it showed me that they cared….and I felt the happiest!

Hence, My Mood Today: Feeling Loved!

Yes, I feel exactly what Ms. Mary Ann Evans [aka George Eliot] once quoted: "I like not only to be loved, but also to be told I am loved". And I am glad that there are people who make me feel this way! Join me today, and tell people you love that you truly love them, for "if you could only love enough, you could be the most powerful person in the world."

Have a great day guys!

Love,
Gagan

The MOODS are BACK!

2011-09-13T21:09:00.000-07:00

Hi and Good Morning,

For numerous days now, I have been forced, manipulated and even threatened to start another season of our very own “My Mood Series”. I had no plans or thoughts about it, but because of all the love that people showed and still show, I started to think about it. So here’s the deal…. Season 3 will only have 12 editions – each day getting intense as I approach my final day here. Day 13 will greet you with my ‘GoodBye to Infy’ Mail! J

So then, see you guys tomorrow! Season 3 is Officially ON!

Love,
Gagan

Dignity at it’s Best!

2011-05-26T13:22:00.001-07:00

The last time I was here and wrote an entry…It was about Oprah and how she inspires me. And today, after almost 6 months of being inactive, I am back, and she, again, is the subject.

I just saw her farewell episode – after ruling the television industry for 25 years and inspiring several million people who tuned in every day to watch her – she finally ended “The Oprah Winfrey Show” with the final show which she said , "This, my last show, is my thank you. It's a love letter to you – my Audience”

I could not have possibly imagined a more dignified way for her to end her show…she simply talked to the viewers, with her life lessons, and credited all that she has achieved to the viewers, and to God! She repeatedly thanked everyone who had helped her through, and who hadn’t….for everyone is somehow connected to each other. This post is just to Thank Oprah for what she has done for me, and for millions of others… I know her ways have paved the path that many want to, and will, follow.

I had several “A-Ha” moments in the last hour of her show. She said some pretty amazing stuff…which stayed with me! She said, “each person is responsible for their lives – and for the energy they create for themselves and bring to others”. Pretty Powerful, huh!

“We often block our blessings because we don’t feel inheritably good enough or smart enough or pretty enough or worthy enough. You are worthy because you are born, and because you are here - and alive! Your being here and alive makes worthiness your birth right. You alone are enough. Feel worthy and own the life you were created for.”

She closed the conversation by saying how her audience has been a safe harbour for her and that she hoped they “will be a safe harbour for somebody else too...their safe place to fall. Do for them, what you all say the show did for you - connect , embrace, liberate, love somebody...just one person...and spread it to two...and many others...and see what happens. I thank you for being as much of a sweet inspiration for me, as I’ve tried to be for you.”

I know we won’t get to see her everyday now….but I also know that she will be back with some pretty amazing stuff…inspiring and touching the lives of many once again. Till then, I want to wish her all the best….and let her know that she made a difference to my life! Because “I will not say goodbye, I will just say, ‘Until we meet again!’” Love you Oprah!

Oprah reigns again – Becomes my ‘Favourite Thing’!

2010-11-24T10:56:00.001-08:00

There are very few people in this world who, and I dare say this, are so influential and genuine and extraordinarily wonderful, that one simply cannot resist thinking of being like them – for they know – that even if a part of them can be like the person they look up to….they would have a life that people will want and envy. For me, that person has always been Ms Oprah Winfrey. I know people have their own theories to give, and their own perceptions to believe – but I have adored this woman for ever since I can remember. And she has never given me a reason Not To!

If you have ever known Oprah, you will be very well aware of the fact that she is one tough lady – she knows how to stand up for what she believes in – soulfully believing in the concept of giving Back, and it is evident by the number of people who adore her that all of this is true! She has always kept her audience ahead of everything else, and now that she is running her final Season of the show, she is leaving no stone unturned to give as much as she can to those who truly deserve – and that not only include people who really need it, but also those who have been giving back to society – giving out stuff ranging from the very hot Apple iPads to the ever-lush Sony Bravia 3D Televisions to the unrevealed-super expensive Volkswagen Beatles – She is doing as much as she can!

But it’s not all about the big stuff that touches me, and impresses me and shows me the power she has, it is her ability to slip in smaller gifts in-between the larger ones – taking in the promise of her audience that they will give those away to someone who they think truly is in need! Now that’s what I call true charity! Giving out things is easy…making people do it is a task – a task that needs talent, and the power of ‘O’.

Like Oprah said at the end of her favourite things show, “It’s not about the stuff really - It’s about hope – about knowing that something really magical, and joyful and wonderful can happen to you when you least expect it – be the person to get that magic into someone’s life. You will love the feeling!”

Love you Oprah!

My Mood Series – Season 2

2010-09-20T10:34:00.001-07:00

Mood - A characteristic (habitual or relatively temporary) state of feeling – is individualistic. And people tend to act (and react) differently to the moods they bear and encounter. Some would break a glass when angry, while some would just lay still when grumped – some will ponder their thoughts when delighted while some will shed a tear when dumped! Yes, each of us has a different way of dealing with moods, but what counts most is the way we choose our next course of action – for that determines what our upcoming mood will be!

My way of expressing what I’m feeling deep within is a little different, and to be a modest, better than most people! I tend to convert my moods into cartoons, and put them on display for all around me at work to see. What started out as a simple activity took a shape I had not imagined it will, and I got all the more moody – and with variety!

Here is a collection of the successful ‘My Mood Series – Season 2’. For people who missed out Season 1, can catch it all HERE. I thank everyone who appreciated my drawings, and for the people who still haven’t gotten the gist, well, I am soon gonna launch Season 3! Yay!

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*All the images used above belong to Gagandeep Singh Walia. Use of any image without prior permission is punishable by law.

One Chapter Closes - and Another Begins..!

2010-05-30T11:22:00.000-07:00

“One chapter closes - and another begins” - This is something that people who frequently change their places or their lives often relate to...and why shouldn’t they? For they have taken on a new Odyssey - bringing an end to the old one - they march out to greater seas to attain much more out of their lives.

But what about the people who are left behind in time? The loved ones they adore and claim to have become their family? The friends who were thought of as people they couldn’t live without? Where does all that go? Yes, life goes on, and so do we ….and it’s the bond that is carried, and strengthened with time.

I am not writing all this in agitation or agony…nor am I doing this in sadness or remorse of any kind - I am only writing this because I got present to a very similar situation recently, and the feelings that surrounded me at that particular moment in time – the last hug and the final goodbye – I was motionless…I didn’t know what was going on, but I wanted it to stop – and sadly, it didn’t!

I knew Arpit Jain for the last 2 years – he was a colleague, who eventually became a friend – and then a room-mate …..And as often it so happens….you tend to fall in love with your room mate, and if he is as sweet and caring and as loving as Arpit, well.., you get the meaning! J

So here’s to the 2 years that we happily spent together – to those funny moments we laughed at together, to the moments where one of us got weak and the other showed support - to the never-ending bike rides we had together, and to the long-lasting discussion and argument sessions. Also, here’s to a long and bright future that both of us will witness and share, and to the never-ending bond that will only grow stronger and stronger. And finally, here’s to an exceptional friend, and even more importantly, an extraordinary Human-Being!

Yes, one chapter has finally closed – and another begins…NOW!

I love you, Mr. Arpit Jain! J

My Mood Series

2010-04-24T10:54:00.000-07:00

For many days now, I have been drawing moods on my office desk white board. The picture that I draw usually depicts how I am feeling on that particular day. The idea is simple....to vent out my mind's status to the people around me even when the vocal medium fails me. And thus....My Mood Series was born.

I started doing it way back in November of 2009, when my life at work was becoming monotonous. The drawing gave me a mood swing...and I liked it. I initially started mailing these pictures to a few of my friends....and they loved it. Slowly, the mailing circle grew big, and today, I thought that I should finally Blog it. :-)

Currently I am in the Season 2 of My Mood Series. I stopped drawing for a few months because there was a lot of work pressure. But then, I realized that there will always be pressure, and that doesn't mean I should stop doing what I love, isn't it? ;-)

These images that you see are some of the compilations from Season 1. I hope you like them. And I hope it solves the purpose for which it was created - to bring a smile on your face. :-)

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Courage and Honor!

2010-04-17T04:04:00.000-07:00

Courage is a hard thing to figure. You can have courage based on a dumb idea or a mistake, but you are not supposed to question adults or your coach or your teacher, for that matter. Because they make the rules - the guidelines. Maybe they know what's best or maybe they don't. It all depends on who they really are and where they come from. Didn't atleast the six hundred guys think of giving up and joining with the other side? I mean, The Valley Of Death! That's pretty salty stuff.

That's why courage is tricky. Should you always do what others tell you to do? Sometimes you might not even know why you do something. I mean, any fool can have courage. But honour, that's the real reason you do something or you don't. Its who you are and maybe who you want to be. If you die trying for something important, then you have both honour and courage, and that's pretty good.

I think that's what the writer of 'The charge of Light Brigade' was trying to say, - that you should hope for courage and try for honour, and maybe even pray that the people telling you what to do have some too.

The Drunk Driver

2010-04-03T04:08:00.001-07:00

Just read this somewhere, and so thought that I should share:

"I went to a party Mom,
I remembered what you said.
You told me not to drink, Mom,
So I drank soda instead.

I really felt proud inside, Mom,
The way you said I would.
I didn't drink and drive, Mom,
Even though the others said I should.

I know I did the right thing, Mom,
I know you are always right.
Now the party is finally ending, Mom,
As everyone is driving out of sight.

As I got into my car, Mom,
I knew I'd get home in one piece.
Because of the way you raised me, Mom,
So responsible and sweet..

I started to drive away, Mom,
But as I pulled out into the road,
The other car didn't see me, Mom,
And hit me like a load.

As I lay there on the pavement, Mom,
I hear the policeman say,
"The other guy is drunk," Mom,
And now I'm the one who will pay.

I'm lying here dying, Mom....
I wish you'd get here soon.
How could this happen to me, Mom?
My life just burst like a balloon.

There is blood all around me, Mom,
And most of it is mine.
I hear the medic say, Mom,
I'll die in a short time.

I just wanted to tell you, Mom,
I swear I didn't drink.
It was the others, Mom.
The others, who didn't think.

He was probably at the same party, Mom,
Just as I.
The only difference is, he drank, Mom,
And I will die.

Why do people drink, Mom?
It can ruin your whole life.
I'm feeling sharp pains now, Mom,
Pains just like a knife.

The guy who hit me is walking, Mom,
And I don't think it's fair.
I'm lying here dying, Mom,
And all he can do is stare.

Tell my brother not to cry, Mom.
Tell Daddy to be brave.
And when I go to heaven, Mom,
Put "GOOD BOY " on my grave.

Someone should have told him, Mom,
Not to drink and drive.
If only they had told him, Mom,
I would still be alive.

My breath is getting shorter, Mom.
I'm getting very scared.
Please don't cry for me, Mom.
When I needed you, you were always there.

I have one last question, Mom.
Before I say good bye.
I didn't drink and drive, Mom,
So why am I the one to die?"

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My Birthday Cake

2010-04-02T00:47:00.000-07:00

Ok...so I recently turned 24...I know...Its Heart Wrenching!!!! :-(

But the fact that my birthday cake was super duper cool made my day a little better (And so did the tons of gifts and presents that I recieved!!!! Yay!!!)

Anyway, so, as I was saying....My cake was AMAZING!!!! As you must have already noticed, it had my picture on it....and what made it even more special (and delicious) were the ingredients it was made from....
It was White Chocolate from the outside, and Chocolate Truffle from the inside (Yummy!)...and...The picture of me was done using Raspberry Jelly...Can you beat that????

It was Fantabulous!!!!
Anyway...Let me also take this opportunity to thank everyone who made my day even more special. Love you guys!
Yay!!!! :)

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The Guiding Factor

2010-03-30T04:04:00.000-07:00

What would have been if the lava present on the surface of the earth hadn't cooled down? Do u for once think that any of us would have been present today had that strategic moment of the earth cooling down hadn't taken place. Leave us aside....do you think even the first bacteria would have survived? I know there have been many theories stated by many famous people speculating what might have been... But the fact of the matter remains that no one really knows for sure. I mean, if u let lose ur wildest of imaginations, u might as well believe that the possibilities of the earth being filled with inhabitants of various kinds are endless. The world as we know it could have been a completely different world. At the end of the day it all comes down to what you want to believe in and what one believes in is what really matters.

My point of writing this piece of writing is not to condemn what might have been or what some theories state is wrong...my point is simple. I just want my inner self to believe that each of us has the potential to change what we see around us and that change, even if it is completely invisible to all others, is as significant a change as it can be. And I also want to believe that I, or any one else as a matter of fact, has the potential to induce the change that they wish to...all that is required is some serious dedication and some serious effort. Now the point is that how does one make a serious effort. Because thinking of something good is easy...trying to make that thing work for you is a task which requires an effort not everyone can put in. That willingness to make an effort will come only if there is a strong determination, and finding that determination can be a real pain in the ass, both literally and figuratively. So my job as of today is to find out that piece of determination that will make me want to make an effort to achieve my dream...and that too at the earliest...for the time is less and there are millions of dreams to be realized and fulfilled.

May God bless me, and anyone else who has a dream in the heart and a vision in the eyes. May the dream soon become a reality and may the reality soon become the guiding path for all those lost in the dark.

AMEN.

Aahan Ka Asar…

2010-03-04T10:29:00.001-08:00

Often it is observed that people have a willingness to do something great in their lives….but seldom has anyone seen someone convert this will into HARDCORE action. And when that does happen, one is left with nothing but a feeling of Aww in the heart and a tear in the eye!

A couple of weeks back, I talked about an organization that was at the verge of making BIG news(Catch it here)…and I, more than anyone else, was waiting to see how they would plan to begin changing lives of the people who really need it. Aahan (earlier named as Food for the Soul) is an organization that has one simple mission: to feed the hungry – and bring smiles to their faces. Signifying ‘The first light of the day’, Aahan will work to bring Dawn in the lives of the many people who cannot afford it.

Their first event took place in a small orphanage in Ludhiana, Punjab, on the festival of colors, Holi. They started out with a painting competition to signify the importance of the colors in life, and showcasing to young children how colors can add beauty and happiness to it. Later, snacks and drinks were distributed, and holi was celebrated in full flavour. The day not only gave the children of the orphanage amazing memories, it also left the volunteers with a feeling of pride in the heart, and motivation to do more in the mind.

It is at times like these that one is inspired and aspires to do great things himself. If you are one of them, then you can play a part too. All you need to do is to create a facebook account (if you don’t have one already), and go to this link: Aahan (Food For The Souls). Once there, all you need to do is to hit the “Join” button, and you’re part is done. It is that Simple.

And ya, every word counts, and every hand helps. So, if you think you are a very social person with countless friends, please help to spread the word. I have always believed that good work must be appreciated, and this is indeed GOOD work. Let’s give them a chance to change lives – let’s give them a hand of our support.

Kaash ho Aahan ki jeet! :)

Food For The Soul

2010-02-24T09:50:00.001-08:00

I once read somewhere: “People who understand food, understand hunger”, and I thought to myself….what NonSense! Why will anyone who understands food and loves to eat will ever need to know what hunger is or how it feels? I mean….he will eventually be filled up before he could even realize that he is hungry, now isn’t it? Yes, that’s Common Sense. But BOY! Was my common sense highly mistaken!

Welcome to the world of the Hungry. Here, people love food – they will do anything to get food – but there’s a catch – they simply CAN’T afford it.

According to the recent survey by UNICEF, over 85% of the children in most of the villages of our country are Malnourished – this simply means that even though we project a robust economy with 9 per cent annual growth, there isn’t enough food for all, and whatever quantity there is, it is simply unaffordable by most. It is at times like these that one sits and thinks of ways to overcome such serious and mind-devastating issues – After all, this is how organisations such as WHO and UNICEF were born.

One such organization that is waiting to be born is “Food for the Soul”. I don’t know what it will be called once its official, but I’ll stick to this name since I like it :) Anyway, Food for the soul is a simple thought with a simple mission – Feed The Hungry….I don’t know how – I don’t know why? I’ll let the thinkers do their math, while I wait and see the results. All I am trying to do here is to create awareness about this serious issue that is engulfing the entire globe – along with the fact that every individual has the capacity to make a difference, and so do YOU!

If you think you can help, all you need to do is to create a facebook account (if you don’t have one already), and go to this link: Food For The Souls. Once there, all you need to do is to hit the “Join” button, and you’re part is done. It is that Simple.

I am in no way related to any activity that this group has performed or will perform in the near future. I am spreading the word just because I like appreciating good work, and this is indeed GOOD work. Let’s give these boys a chance to make a difference to the world….let’s help them give “Food For The Soul”!

The Climb…

2010-02-05T21:06:00.000-08:00

After months of pestering and pushing my brains on to the right track, and still not able to be satisfied with myself for even a single time, I had to - HAD TO - take time off to think – am I doing the right thing? I mean, of course getting into a dream B-School is a tough job and that it takes a lot of hard work and immense dedication to get there….but did I not work hard enough to get a single call from a single ‘DECENT’ college?

Anyway, I can go on and on and sulk all that I want to about my life, and it wouldn’t affect anybody…but the fact remains that the sulking is not going to help….I will have to take a stand of my own, and for my self…because if I don’t, then who will?

I can almost see it, that dream I am dreaming. But there is a tiny voice in my head that says, “You will never make it!”. Every step I am taking, every move I am making – it all feels lost with no direction, and my Faith is shaking! But I….I gotta keep trying….got to keep my head held HIGH!

The struggles I am facing, the chances I am taking – sometimes might knock me down, But No, I am NOT breaking. I may not know it, but these are the moments that I will remember most, and so, I have got to keep going! And I have got to be strong, and just got to keep pushing on.

Because….there’s always going to be another mountain, and I am always gonna wanna make it move. There’s always going to be an uphill battle, and sometimes I will have to lose. It ain’t about how fast I get there, it ain’t about what’s waiting on the other side….It’s the CLIMB!

Come CAT 2010…This time I will be READY! God Bless Me! :)

Silent Kindness: Why is it not rewarded?

2009-12-26T11:34:00.001-08:00

The voting has stopped – the results are in – and the winner of the most controversial show of all times has now been declared….and the winner is Vindu Dara Singh!

Big Boss, an indianised concept of a UK based popular reality show called Big Brother, showcased a journey of 13 odd contestants thru 84 odd days, each different from each other, each with fame and popularity, and each with a common thing in mind – the thought of winning the game! As the days passed, and the hopes of bonds becoming stronger rose, the real faces began revealing themselves….and Boy!, were the faces UGLYYYY!

After days of immense laughs and fights, and tonnes of pressure, only 3 made it to the grand finale: The ever big-hearted and a cry baby Vindu Dara Singh, the gracious and generous Poona Dhillon and the guy claiming to be a common man and Mr. India title holder, Parvesh Rana.

The point of this post is not to write about the concept of the show, or to criticise the result – it is not to claim what happened in the house or what should have happened….the only point I want to emphasise on today is the fact that people sometimes act so dumb and blind, that they make the silent so unseen. Yes, my only anger while watching the show today was the eviction of Poonam Dhillon from the show. I mean, why the hell was she evicted before Pravesh from the house? Is the audience so dumb that they are unable to distinguish between the good and the bad? Or are they fools? Are they so entertainment prone that they want to keep only those guys in the house who know how to fight or create a scene? Damn! I have never been so disappointed after watching a show on television!!!!

Never before had I witness a more sophisticated lady than Poonam Dhillon…the lady was calm, composed, sweet, gorgeous, and motherly. She was the only one who forgot about the fights and the tensions building in the house and still cooked for everyone with equal devotion. She knew how to talk, walk, dress….she also made sure that no one was ever disappointed – the Halwa cake she made for Baktiyaar was a living example of that. Then why was she not voted for? Grrr…..to all those people who voted for Pravesh and didn’t see that there was a silent lady in the house who deserved appreciation more than anyone! I agree that she wasn’t loud, or didn’t focus on drama like all others….but is that any reason to be voted out from the show!!!!

Why I am only criticising Pravesh is because the guy had done some serious damage and still received votes is above me! Acting silly, and trying to get sympathy by saying that I have no money or I am a common man isn’t an act of bravery for which he shouldn’t have been rewarded. I know that Vindu had done a lot of bad things too….but at least he was warm hearted and sweet in some ways….but Pravesh!!!! DAMN!

Tonite’s episode showed me why good people are generally left behind and ignored. It showed me how people perceive things and react accordingly. I also got to learn that being generous and kind won’t take you long or do you any good….so I asked myself a question tonight: why shall I continue on the same path? And Poonam herself gave me the answer: I shall continue to do good because it is the write thing to do, and I shall continue to be kind because there are people around who need such kindness. Yes, Poonam Ji taught me a lot during the last 84 days…and I shall miss her very much, now that the show is over. I shall remember the many teachings that have been dawned upon me - the most powerful being the act of SILENT KINDNESS!

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Who Am I?

2009-12-11T21:54:00.001-08:00

Have you ever woken up in the morning and asked yourself the most basic question of all times – Who am I? Have you ever faced a situation when such a question was thought of and you didn’t have any words, whatsoever? To move to the path of self-discovery, this is one question that must be answered, and that too with utmost honesty!

Like all, I was also jinxed by this question every single morning I woke up! I used to wonder what to think of it….let alone answer it. But you can’t really judge yourself the way you judge others, now can you? Because when you think of it, everyone thinks they are the best…and so when judgement calls….we tend to get biased for ourselves. What we also tend to get biased for is God. For when something good happens to us, we get all the praises, and we claim that it was our hard work that this thing happened. But when something doesn’t really work out for us, we tend to blame God for it. I know, there are many who do not believe in God. And in that case, they tend to believe that bad things happened because of their bad luck….which is in a sense nothing but blaming a power above them – and that to me is GOD!

I am not writing all this because I have been able to figure out the answer to the question asked above. No, I am far from that answer. But why I felt like writing was because I witnessed something, and I was moved, and I thought I should share it with every one. Recently I went to this show, where a performance really touched my heart. It wasn’t a dance sequence or someone singing, for it was a mere hand that took me by surprise. If you didn’t understand what I am talking about, just check out the video below, and after you do…think of the question I raise today…Who Am I? Is it really all in my hands?

Statutory Warning: Please turn on your speakers to full volume to maximise the effect before you start the video. Also, you might think that you just hear the music but see nothing in the video, have some patience and then you will too feel the magic! Enjoy :)

2012: The whole world comes together to witness the whole world fall apart!

2009-11-13T13:33:00.001-08:00

Since the Mayan Period, we talked about it….
Since the Bible prophesised it, we dreaded it….
Since the year 2000, the whole world heard about it….
The time has finally come….when a single date will unite the entire world!

Welcome to 2012 – a film so epic in nature that calling it as the biggest disaster movie of all times would be an understatement – because it truly is….It Truly Is!

I was one of the few overly-desperate ones who wanted to see the movie on the day of its release, and I did….and I am glad that I did. It’s not that the film has a brilliant story or the best of acting….but the fact that it keeps the audience entertained throughout its runtime makes it magnificent and simply brilliant. The moment the movie began, I was glued to my seat….with there being many a times when my eyes were irritated and watery….because I refused to blink!
It had scenes and visuals that can undoubtedly be described as most breath taking shots ever, and by far the most fast moving ones, having an over the top imaginary and creativity. One is most-definitely awestruck when the gigantism of the movie is witnessed!

Based on an ancient Mayan myth that the world will collapse on 21.12.2012, the story revolves around a failed novelist turned limo driver, who has a lead and knows that the disastrous day is near, and sets out to protect his family. The government, on the other hand, is preparing for the dooms day as well….but it isn’t focussing on 6 billion people….it does so in hiding, not revealing why there occurs so many earthquakes each day. What follows is a long series of breathtaking and never before seen visuals of destruction and disaster that will make you think – what if it is all true!

The film leaves no stone unturned to take you to the world in 2012 when everything would come to an end, and only unity and humanity would help survive ‘The Judgement Day’.
What’s more interesting is the fact that people are rushing to the cinemas to watch this movie….so rightly put: The whole world is getting together to witness the world fall apart, and Like John Cusack says in the film, “Its home wherever we all are together”, it’s not long when people will start believing in togetherness and humanity – and it is only then that this world will become a better place to live!

As for the movie: I say catch it, or you’ll regret it for the rest of your life….for 2012 is near, now isn’t it?

Endless Desires….

2009-10-19T07:00:00.001-07:00

This morning after I woke up, I looked around my room with an half-opened eye that wanted to shut itself, but couldn’t - only because I had the control! I looked around my room, seeing all the stuff that I owned, and thought “I need more!” This thought wasn’t a mood swing or a sudden urge to get something more than I could afford, but had come because my mind has been focused on a certain something I very recently started strongly desiring – A Blackberry Storm2!

For almost 2 years, I have been using a phone which was created for one greater purpose – making calls! But with technology crossing all the borders, I said to myself, “How can I be so left behind?”, and thus started the search for a cool cell phone – a phone that could define me, or so I thought! Anyway, after months of searching and checking with my available budget time and again, I came down to two choices – the ever so popular Apple IPhone, and the newly launched, highly controversial Blackberry Storm.

Both the phones had similar features, yet it was a difficult choice to make! It’s not that I could afford any of these phones, No! They didn’t fall in my price range, not atleast while sitting here in India. But their US price tags were something that helped me keep my spirits high! I was definitely not gonna pay twice as much in India, if there existed a possibility of getting them at a half price had I been in the United States. Nevertheless, I kept trying, and God showed His existence, and on July 2nd, 2009, I was a proud owner of a brand new Blackberry Storm – which came at the price I had hoped for! It sure was a happy day for me – but that feeling didn’t last long, because the very next day Blackberry announced that they were working on a next gen Storm – to be called Storm2 – and thus, new desires were born!

Last night, when RIM officially announced the Blackberry Storm2, I started desiring again. I so wanted this phone now! Its not like there is a huge difference in the two phones – I mean they look practically the same, with a teeny tiny refinement here and there. But I still desire the phone. And this morning, when I woke up with that half-opened eye that so wanted to shut itself, I asked myself – why do I desire something even when I had a device better than any of the people I know or work with? And then it struck me – I wished to be at a level where people could envy me for everything I owned – and horror ran down my spine!

I never wanted people to envy me for the things I own – of course I want them to envy me, but for the wonderful work I do - for the things I say – for the way I smile! And now, after I am fully awake and have taken a bath, my eyes have lost the desire to shut themselves (for the time being, though!), and I am thinking – May be it is time for me to do the same and be happy for what I have. Things do get better every time they are upgraded, but they are things after all – why loose my sleep worrying about how to get them when I can wait in patience and grab them at the chance I get?

Yes, Desires are endless, but the way I see them now, the ones that truly make a difference are the ones that really count! :)

*Image sources: www.crackberry.com

I See People - and I See Life..!

2009-03-21T14:41:00.001-07:00

It is 02:36 AM by my system clock, and I sit at the Bangalore International Airport right this instant....I sit here waiting for the time when my flight will take me back home....I sit her waiting, and I see people here - waiting with me....

With all the time I have to kill....I look around on who is coming, and who's leaving....I see different people walk past me....all going to different places....but one thing is for sure....they all have one thing in common - they have a dream - a dream for which they are going to a distant land - in hopes to fulfil that dream, and finally come back home - with pride in their souls - and love in their hearts!

I see people who have come to drop their loved ones at the gate of the airport, and I see that they have a worry on their face....a fear....a sadness - that feeling of going far from the one's they love. I see people sticking to the glass walls, bidding goodbyes to their loved ones - tears rolling down they face. This made me wonder....why does one have to go away from the people they love to fulfil their dream? Why can't one stay with the ones they love and make their life better - isn't that a dream in itself?

I see this lady, holding a year old child in her hand, wiping tears off her eyes, waving to her husband. I also see this man, on the other side of the glass wall, gesturing, that he has to go or else he will miss his flight....but doesn't want to go....He wants to stay....how do I know? That's because he too is in tears!!!! Seeing them makes me wonder yet again....is the dream which makes you leave the people you love a dream worth living?

I see people who're sleepy, I see people who're tired. I see people rushing because they are late, I also see people getting restless. But amongst all these people, I also see people who are laughing, people who are cheerful...excited - and I see their passion flowing! And I now wonder again - even if it hurts going away from the people we love, one has to do the job at hand - So why not do it in Joy? Why worry of screwing up? What is the worst that could happen? Why wonder what the others might think? Like what Randy Pauch said in his "last lecture" - It doesn't matter how the cards are dealt, what is important is the fact how you play the hand!

So here's a deal....Lets do what ever is assigned to us in life - and lets do it with full passion and sincerity. Lets do it so well, that the people around us learn from it. Lets make a better future....and Lets start it right NOW!

The Things You Didn't Do

2008-09-13T23:32:00.001-07:00

For many months that I have been writing posts and reading other blogger's' posts, I have come to realise that there is immense talent in people when it comes to penning down poetry. I mean, I, in particular, cannot write meaningful poetry no matter how hard I try....and this feeling really made me feel bad sometimes.

So lately, I was so tempted to write my very first version of a poem....this one does not tell about me, or anyone I know, and I want to dedicate this poem, or whatever you call it, to the bloggers whose poetic sense really inspires me, and makes me jealous (Truly)....some of whom are: V, Riversoul, Sameera, Pooja, Anusha, Lena, Anindita, Cinderella and finally Gunj - for she is the reason I started my blog in the first place.

No, this is not another TAG story - this is a mere dedication to the people who write beautiful poetry. I apologise if I forgot to mention any name here, it is certainly not intentional!

My poem is certainly not an original piece of work, it has been inspired from something I read nearly 15 years ago, and so if it sounds familiar, Please Excuse Me!

My poem is called "The Things You Didn't Do", and it goes something like this:

Do you remember the time when I spilled Strawberry Pie all over your favourite car rug?
I thought you would scream at me,
But You Didn't!

Do you remember the time when I wanted to go out, but you said "It would rain", and it did?
I thought you would say, "I told you so",
But You Didn't!

Do you remember the time when I forgot to tell you that the party was formal, and you showed up in casuals?
I thought you would stop talking to me,
But You Didn't!

Do you remember the time when I drove your car into the wall and damaged it?
I thought you would hit me,
But You Didn't!

Do you remember the time when I flirted with other guys just to make you jealous?
I thought you would stop loving me,
But You Didn't!

Yes, there were a lot of things that I thought you would do, but you didn't.
I wanted to tell you about how much I thought about you and cared about you and loved you.
Yes, I wanted to tell you all when you would return from the war,
But You Didn't!

Do You Believe In Miracles?

2008-08-30T05:38:00.001-07:00

"Miracle - A marvelous event manifesting a supernatural act of a divine agent"....This is how the dictionary describes the word....but the way I describe it, is somewhat different. I define it as...."Miracle - an event that could change the course of your life". Like most of you....I have always believed that miracles exist, but had never witnessed one. The only thing that made me keep hold of this small little word was my belief, and Hope!

There are times in life when one has to make a choice....it could either be for a small thing, or something huge....but making that choice is often the most difficult thing one has to do. I faced something very similar lately. I know it would sound too bizarre and not worth mentioning for some of you, but for me, it is important - because it has changed the way I think - and the way I believe!

It all began when I was selected in two of the major software companies in India, and making a choice between the two was tough. I was also working in a place where I was having the best time of my life, and so the sadness of leaving it was also prevalent. One of the companies had asked me to join them on 22nd August - which I thought - was too damn close! The other company, better than the first one, had not announced its date for me, and so I was a little dubious as what to do and what not to. And taking the scenario of the present software companies....it wouldn't have been a surprise if they would cancel the appointment. I didn't know what to do....what to think....It was a huge decision for me....and I didn't want it to go wrong!

After thousands of phone calls to the people I trust and believe, I decided to go in for the company calling me on the 22nd August. I got ready, and reached the office. Cell phones were to be switched off, and so I followed the instructions. I sat through some of the induction, but then felt my heart was heavy. I asked for permission to go to the washroom - there, I turned my phone on and made 5 calls - to dad, mom, my brother, and 2 of my good friends. I told the way I was feeling to all one by one....and I was amazed by the way everyone came out with the same response - everyone asked me to run out and skip this company!!!! I again thought for a minute or two....talked to a few other people there....and then....ran out! I didn't know what I was doing....my brain went dead....all I knew was that I was doing exactly as my heart was telling me to do.

After the day ended....I started questioning my decision....I was thinking what if I messed it all up....what if It all just went wrong. I then decided to not regret my decision, and just face the consequences....whatsoever they may be! A week went past, and I was enjoying whatever I was doing....when suddenly I got a call from my best friend, saying that the other company had sent out its date as 29th September! The moment I heard the news, I closed my eyes and whispered "Thank You!". I felt that an angel had forced me to leave the first company the other day....because had I joined it then, I would have been crying right about now!!!! It was a true miracle for me....a miracle - that HAPPENED!

It is not everyday that things work out in your favour - but when they do - you feel that there is someone looking out for you....and you feel good - and energised - and Blessed! And if things do not work out....then it means that you are even more Blessed....because something really good is coming your way very soon. The most important thing one must keep in mind is to never regret your decision....because if you do....you are messing yourself up even more than you already are....Just believe....and things will fall in place automatically!

I now completely believe that miracles happen....so when will you?

Are We Patriotic????

2008-08-15T07:21:00.001-07:00

Nationalism - Patriotism - Loyalty....These are mere words....but what lies underneath them is a heavy meaning....a meaning that can take an entire nation to the path of progress and success!

I woke up this morning hoping that my cell phone would have several messages by many wishing me Happy Independence Day....but there were none. I then realised that people didn't take it seriously, and that they weren't Patriotic enough. I went to work in no hopes of celebration whatsoever....Why would a multinational firm care if it was a national holiday in the country where they had a few of their offices? And I was not bothered much too, for it was the reality - people care for themselves alone - and all those country specific talks, and the patriotism crap, and the 'being loyal to the country' wordings were a shear show off, and no one didn't actually care enough.

As soon as I opened the door to my work area, and stepped in....I was taken aback, and all my thoughts about multinational companies - and the people working in them - were shattered into a million pieces. The decor of the foyer made me drop my jaw till my shoulders, for it was a vision I had not expected in a million years! The roof had the Tri-Coloured balloons, all grouped into the sets of three each - specifying the presence of the three colours in our national flag. The roof also had the plastic replicas of the flag itself - hanging down - blessing all the by-walkers underneath!

That was not all - every employee was dressed in an ethnic way - and it was a sight to see....I felt as if I was in a theme party or something....It was an amazing feeling....a feeling you can only get out of patriotism! After my shift, I went to the cafeteria to grab a bite to eat, and the Patriotic fever was on its full swing there as well. The company had organised 'A Free Dinner Buffet' in honour of The 61st Independence Day! People had gathered there to eat - to enjoy - to celebrate....and yes, I was celebrating as well....it was a feeling that could not be resisted - as it grew from within....the most powerful source of all - The Heart!

I returned home with a heavy thought in my mind. People say that we are not patriotic - people say that the nation does not provide any support to them - people say all sort of things....But it is times like these that you feel and realise what your country does for you....and what you should do for your country. Let that feeling of nationalism speak for itself today....let the world know that we are proud of our country....and that we will work hard to make our country proud of us! Yes, we can take our country on the road to progress and success....all we need to do is work hard....and work together! Lets show the world what India is made of - Lets show the world what Indians are made of - Lets show the world the true meaning of Nationalism - Patriotism - and Loyalty!

Happy Independence Day Everyone!

The Perception Game

2008-08-06T13:08:00.001-07:00

What is a perception? Is it some knowledge that you gain by seeing something or someone? Or is it your true belief in something? Is the perception almost always true? Or does it, like all other good things, have flaws?

So, I was midst my training session at the company that I started working for, when the trainer said that we should all play the perception game. The game has rules, but is simple. All we need to do is to tell our perception to everyone of what we thought they would be like when we first saw them or met them. It sounded simple enough, and the game began.

Everyone got their turns, and when the ball rolled on to me, I got intimidated. One by one, all of my fellow trainees poured out their perceptions about me....what did they think I would be like when they first saw me. There were people who said really nice things about me, like "I wanted to be friends with him", and "I found him really cool, with a cool accent"....and yes, then came the huge bump on the head...."I thought he was a security guard and not a trainee!"....and I was like, "what the heck!!!!????"

So, it was now my trainer's turn to tell her perception of me....and if you have read my earlier post, you would know that I am really fond of my trainer, and so I was obviously expecting something really cool. But then the bitter truth came out, "I thought you were a typical Punjabi and I did not like you!". I was spell bound....and angry and sad....and I felt as if all the blood rushed into my head....I thought I would explode!

But luckily, she clarified that it was all a perception....and that she was totally wrong! But all this made me wonder....we meet so many people everyday....and we perceive of what they will be like. But when we get to know them, what ever we had perceived them to be is almost never right. Then why do we still do it?

Why can't we simply pass a smile to a disabled rather than turning our faces away in disgust? Why do we set our expectations on someone who seems appealing, and who ends up breaking our trust in any case? Why do we perceive? Why do we go by looks and not by what's inside? Why doesn't someone with a bad appearance deserve a chance to be known and explored? I speak for myself, and I know that I am no different. But that perception game did teach me to pass a smile....to try being nice even to someone whom I think wont be nice.

Let's all give the worthy a chance....lets all pass a smile....lets all play the perception game, and know what really hidden inside!

Happy Perceiving Everyone!

One Night @ The Call Center

2008-07-25T10:39:00.001-07:00

For Starters, NO, this aint about the book. Sorry if I disappointed you, and am thankful to those who were cheered up by this info! ;)

Anyway, this is about my first night at a call center, an experience I will never forget in my life! So, I recently started working, and I am in the training period, and the shift they gave me was a night shift - 11 PM to 8 AM. A sad timing, I know!

Anyhow, I was up and ready by 9 PM, mine is the first pick up and the last drop by the cab - again sad, I know this too! :D The cab came in and started honking at about 9:15 PM, and soon, I was on the busy roads....making my first "Official" Night Out!

After all the pickups, we reached the office at about 10:15 PM, and I still had like 45 mins before my shift began. Since it was the first day, I didn't know anybody, and I must say this, It gets kinda sad when you are in a new place, and you know no one. But the jolly character that I am, I was soon talking to my fellow trainees, and we decided to check the entire office premises.

We soon reached my favourite place there - the sports room....Not that I am a very sporty person, but the atmosphere was as if it was a night club of some sort - trust me, it really was. Anyway, I, and a few others ended up playing table tennis for some time. Soon it was time for the shift, and we headed to the training room.

Now, I must confess, My trainer is like WOW! I mean, she is amazingly amazing. And the way she speaks her "AMERICAN" accented English, anyone would fall for her....and she is smart as well....and when I say smart, I mean "The Lara Dutta in the Miss Universe pageant" kind of smartness!!!! She started the day by saying that there was a musical event to take place in the cafeteria, and that, if we wanted, we could go see it, and so, the training would start at about 12.

The musical person that I am, I was the first person to enter the cafeteria, and take my seat amongst the audience. I had never seen such an atmosphere in an office, where everyone is enjoying and chilling out, screaming at the top of their lungs, whistling....you get the picture! The show started, and I enjoyed like anything....it was amazing!

Soon I was back in the training room, with my fellow trainees. It was somewhere around 1 AM. The trainer started telling us about how put stress on words, and some stuff like that. The class went on, with sleep coming in and knocking at the doors time and again....but thankfully, our trainer being fun and sweet, always asked if we needed a BREATHER! And of course, thanks to Nestle' for introducing Nescafe' to our lives....that kicked the sleep out!

We also discussed about our lives, and knowing about everybody in the room was fascinating in itself. I learnt that my trainer preferred working in Night Shifts so that she could spend time with her 6 month old daughter during the day - Now that's the sweetest and the most adorable thing any mother can do - Sacrifice her sleep! But this sacrifice couldn't harm my trainer in anyway....I mean....No dark spots under the eyes....Vibrant skin....and full of life....Why would anyone want to sleep....ever? :D

Soon she gave us an exercise....she asked us to assume that we were 80 years old, and that we had to look back in time, and state what we had gained and what we couldn't. I thought about it really hard, and realised that it was not easy predicting what wasn't there. It was more of an imagination thing going on, but yes, it was mixed with the feelings of what I wanted to gain in the future, and what I will be able to achieve.

I reached home at around 9 AM, my mind still pondering over the last exercise that I did....Will I be able to do what I thought I wanted to by the time I was 80? Will I be able to leave a smile on the faces of the people I am associated with in one way or the other? Will I be able to be Happy? Yes, Life can be so unpredictable, but isn't this unpredictability that makes it even more fun to get up the next day? Doesn't not knowing what is about to happen give us the energy to work even harder to know what is about to come? And doesn't the fact that we don't know what will happen next gives us a chance to dream....and work even harder to make them come true?

Yes, I had learnt what it was like to dream - and to work to get that dream. My one night at the call center taught me that....to never give up....to never loose hope....for it would be soon....that everything would come....right in front of the eyes!

Are You A Superhero?

2008-07-15T21:58:00.001-07:00

Ever wondered what it was like to be a super hero? To be actually in a state of possession of those mystical powers that gave you an extra edge over the others - to be in the state of art to do almost anything insanely possible? Well, I don't want to sound too cliche', but provided the kind of movies coming out this summer, one is bound to think this way!

I was lucky enough (or you could say idle enough) to be able to watch two cool flicks back to back this Monday. First stop was Hancock, a tale about a drunkard superhero, who finds love in the most unusual of ways, and then is forced to leave it behind - for good! What I liked about Hancock was the fact that he was an unlikely hero, but still cared enough to save the day, even if it meant damaging the property worth million of dollars, and all the thankless people hating him. But he didn't care enough, because all he had to do was save the day - and he did! And when its Will Smith playing Hancock, you better expect something really good....

Next stop was Kung Fu Panda, a heroic tale of a dumb, but funny Panda, who learns the art of Kung Fu, and defeats the enemy. Po, the panda, could be the most unlikely hero, who would step into the picture and save the day, for he only dreamt of it, but never could actually implement it - He couldn't see his own toes, for crying out loud, let alone hitting some one with them. But He did, and he did well!

What I most liked about the movie was the fact that it dealt its cards really well. I mean, you don't go to a movie thinking what message is it gonna pass out....but if you do get the message, and the message is beautiful, all you do is applaud! Kung Fu Panda told me in my face to "Just Believe". You see, the secret ingredient in the secret ingredient noodle soup is that there is no secret ingredient at all. Anything you believe in becomes special by itself, and there is no need for the secret ingredient anymore. Pretty amazing, considering the fact that it all came out of a fat Panda. :P

There was another thing that took me back while watching the movie, in a good way that is. A turtle named Master Ugway said something remarkable, which I thought was simply awesome, given the price I paid for the tickets! He said, "Yesterday is history, and tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift, and that is why it is called Present".

So, I came home pondering over what a beautiful day I had, and when I looked at it, my day was good because I believed it to be good. There isn't anything we can't do, and the methodology for doing any task is the same, and simple too....All you need to do is to just believe that you can do it, and then do it. The secret ingredient will automatically stir up your task, and your life - and you will become your very own SuperHero!

So, where are you gonna fly today, eh?

A Lovely, Special and a long awaited Reunion

2008-07-09T13:20:00.001-07:00

So, it is after a long that I am writing. And the reason is simple enough....I needed time to heal from my misery, which I proudly have. I can now proudly say that I have Finally Got Closure!

Anyway, I am enjoying my vacations these days, and so was browsing the old photo albums of my childhood. That reminded me of how blessed I have been by God to get so much love from everyone around me. Its not everyone who gets all that love, and care, and I just feel really Blessed.

I was seeing the pictures, and came along the picture of a birthday party of a boy named Bryan Birget. Now, Bryan was like my best friend when I was young. We used to hang out all the time. The moment the day began, we were either rushing to school, or if it was an off, we were getting ready to hang out at either one of our places. We would leave only at around 6 PM in the evening, because that's when our dads used to return from their offices. Anyhow, a time came when the Birget family got transferred and moved to Taiwan. I was around 10, and Bryan was 9. A little later, we lost all modes of getting in touch.

Time passed. Memories became elusions, elusions became fogginess, fogginess became mist, for the time had now come that I believed we will never meet again. But this belief couldn't kill the determination of finding one of the best things that had ever happened to me. Soon Internet came into existence, and the power of Google could not be undone. I kept trying, every now and then punching in the keywords "Bryan Birget" in Google, but found no results. Soon a time came when I posted our pictures on Orkut, and wrote in the captions that I had lost Bryan and missed him. Ideas and comments started pouring in, and then one day, one of my friends asked me to search him on FaceBook. I did, and alas! I had found a Bryan Birget!

After 13 y ears, I finally had a profile that belonged to someone named Bryan Birget. I wasn't sure whether it was him, because the picture wasn't clear, and I wasn't authorised to enter the profile. So, I messaged him, taking my chances. I felt the stakes were high, but I had to take my chances. I wrote to him, saying, "I know it would be weird reading this, because its weird for me writing it too. But I got to do this. I had a friend named Bryan, and I am looking for him. My Bryan's Dad worked in Nestle, and his Mom's name was Lu, and ya, His Birthday falls on March 13. So, if you are him, please reply back! Regards, Gagan".

I sent the message, and waited for a reply. It was not more than 30 minutes later that my MSN messenger window popped up saying "You have a new message from Bryan Birget". I was excited, and a little scared too. I wanted him to be the Bryan I was looking for. I opened my mail, read the first line, and closed my eyes to Pray. The first line read: 'Oh My God! Gagan, I am "your Bryan".'

I was so happy, that the happiness of finding a treasure chest felt nothing in front of it. I replied to him, and soon we were chatting. We were onto each other for a little more than 2 hours, we had a lot of catching up to do. I realised we've changed, and grown since the last we knew each other. He used to be this tiny little person, and now, he stood 6'2 feet tall. But our hearts hadn't changed, and we still loved each other. After I finished talking to him, I called his Dad and Mom up and talked to them. It was getting so much better minute after minute. I was convincing them to pay a little visit to India, and they agreed on planning a trip. I don't know when that will be, but I sure want it to happen soon, and trust me, when that happens, there will be a picture of him and me together, right here!

I had a beautiful day because I've finally found My Long lost best friend, I've found My Bryan. And I know, that I will finally be able to sleep a good sleep tonight.

No Need To Say GoodBye!

2008-06-18T01:01:00.001-07:00

I wonder what life is all about? Life enters as a baby....the baby grows....and heads out to the world....meets people....makes friends....and some, out of the thousands he encounters, become really close and special. And you start sharing everything with the special ones....you want them to know everything....and you want to know everything about them too. That's because you love them....

But a day soon comes by when something happens....and it turns everything around. You start feeling betrayed....you feel sad....and then things starts dieing....your friendship starts breaking....and then you move far, and then never talk again. Is it strange or what? What is this small thing that happens that brings about so drastic changes in your life? Misconceptions and Misunderstandings happen, because they are bound to happen....but isnt it our job to forget it all? Are we not supposed to forget the small wrongs and just remember the so many rights that have been done in the past?

A similar thing has taken me aback....and I am still in shock. I have started questioning my beliefs....my choices....my soul! But I know its not the end....It cannot be. Because I know....things will return back....when it's over....and so there's no need to say GoodBye!

It started out as a feeling, Which then grew into a hope, Which then turned into a quiet thought which then turned into a quiet word. And then that word grew louder and louder until it was a battle cry.
I'll come back when you call me. No need to say GoodBye.

Just because everything's changing doesn't mean it's never been this way before. All you can do is try to know who your friends are as you head off to the war. Pick a star on the dark horizon and follow the light.
You'll come back when it's over. No need to say GoodBye.

Now we're back to the beginning. It's just a feeling and no one knows yet. But just because they can't feel it too doesn't mean that you have to forget. Let your memories grow stronger and stronger until they're before your eyes.
You'll come back when they'll call you. No need to say GoodBye.

Blog Blog Blog....Or is it really that much awaited?

2008-05-14T12:09:00.001-07:00

Its been quite sometime now that I wrote something on my space here. Well, time has always been of the essence, and I, being the lazy butt that I am, couldn't manage the most precious gift to mankind....Time itself!

Anyways, for the long time that I have been silent, there's been many people sitting on my throat and yelling to write something in the blog. And my question to them was...."WHAT????"!

I soon realised that Blogging was something you could start anywhere and anytime, and I thought to myself....What the crap! Why dont I just write what's on my mind? So, here I am, blabbering about almost nothing of grave importance!

So is blogging that much noticeable? Well....the last time I wrote a post, only the people I told about the blog took up the effort to read it, and I said to myself....what if I told no one about it? What if no one knew that I write! Then it came down to that moment....Will the essence of blogging remain? How will I even get a chance to connect with the millions of people around the globe who blog too? What is - as a freaky college bunker would say - the point of writing a blog?

So this is my thought today....well....not really a thought, but a question to all those who read this post. Tell me how do I connect with people via blogging? Does anyone, other than me and the people who care about me have any time to visit and read a total stranger's blog? Give it a shot....think about it....and answer....no matter what it is....but if you do, then I'll know for sure....that Blogging Does Work!

The ZESTATION has finally gone By!

2008-03-05T21:46:00.000-08:00

Well, this is my first "ever" blog, so please excuse me for violating the rules, if any! ;) For many years, I have been tempted to finally start doing my blog, and now I finally found the guts to do so! Anyway, today I am gonna write about the fest of ma college that was recently concluded, and to which I had an important part to play.

For those of you who've not been to a college just yet, A fest is a celebration of completion of another one year....different colleges are invited and they all compete for various events....and join in for celebrating a success! In a nutshell....a fest wud mean days of non-stop fun and masti, with some inter-college competitions thrown in between!

So, What was my role in the current fest? To start the whole story....I am in my final year of engg, and so, this was my last chance to do something, as this was my last fest....bcoz after this, who knows wats coming next! Anyway, I applied for 2 posts....one was to be the head of "written arts", that means I will be incharge of debates and declas and stuff....a rather boring thing to do....and I had been a part of it for the last 3 years. Lol! second was to be the head of the controls....and that means that I would have been responsible for the entire thing....from gathering people to inviting people....from starting the fun to ensuring the masti....

I appeared for both the interviews....The written arts thing was into my kitty from the word GO, I knew I had it the moment I stepped into the room. And ya, I was selected as the head of Written Arts! The real deal was the interview for being the controls head....I nailed every interviewer by speaking what I was meant to....and so I was called back for another round of interview....and so were 5 other boys....

A long interview, where everyone bajaoed me completely....and where I, at a point, started thinking as If I was in the auditions for Roadies, was now over. I had my doubts, and they became true the next day....I was just the head for Written Arts! I a bit disappointed at first, but then I settled for what I had....and stopped crying for what I didn't. I took up the job pretty seriously, and came up with something new, and innovative! I was pretty sure to take written arts from the ashes of the "geeky zone" into the lights of the "freaky zone".

I decided to choose a good quality of people as my team, and I did. More than 75 people turned up to be the members of my team, and so I had to keep an interview round for them....Man! It was all fun! I finally came down to 37, and I felt as if I had done a pretty good job. Then came the job of distributing different events to different people....I had in all 14 events, and now, distribution wasn't easy....and everybody wanted to take care of the exciting events....I tried my level best to justify their inner guts, and tried my level best to justify mine as well ;)
Then began the era of making a time plan, and fighting with the controls people to get the desired venues....when it comes to written arts' events, there is no 1, and I mean no 1, who is willing to provide a slot for its events in the Auditorium or the Quadrangle....because that's where most people come....and that's what mostly attracts attention....and the crowd! After a long fight and hot discussions....I was finally granted 4 slots....1 in the auditorium, and 3 in the Quadrangle. Sigh!

Soon the D-day came....21st February, 2008....I had a couple of my events lined up....but everything started after the inaug....and when Zeenat Aman was supposed to inaugurate the occasion, even I felt weak in my knees and took a seat in the auditorium! Wow! She sure is pretty! More surprises were on my way soon....I was asked to interview her by the head of College press, and Man! I was like WOW! Ms. Zeenat is kind, and she was talking to me....forget the others in the room!!!! Lol! I was spell-bound, and ya, Nervous! But it went smoothly....and the best part part was that I was asked to sit next to her twice....once by her secretary, and then by Ms. Zeenat herself....But I still chose to stand, I don't know what I was thinking....Or was I actually not!!!! Who knows....I was with Zeenat Aman! Hehe! It wasn't the first time I was interviewing a celebrity, I had done it earlier for Bombay Vikings back in 2007, and for Euphoria back in 2006. But every time, I get goose bumps, and the excitement! I guess that is what makes it special!!!! I was singing the McDonald's Jingle in my Heart, "I'm Loving it!"

Soon I was brought down to the earth, and I realised that it finally was "SHOW TIME"....and ya, I did get into ACTION! My first day events were rockingly successful....attracting participants and audiences' alike....the one thing I was doubtful about! Anyways....everything was going on smoothly, when suddenly I get the news that there are no participants for one of my event....and I was shocked. I tried to retain ma cool, and started making announcements using the radio jockey, and ya, a little bit of bribe helped a lot! Lol! Things moved swiftly for that day....Silk Route were to perform that night, and I, being a Head, was allowed to enter the ground while they were rehearsing....I felt proud and honoured! Lol! The first day rocked, but ya, I was so damn tired....exhausted is also a degree smaller than what I want to use here! I was about to leave at 11:30 PM, when I got a call saying that all heads were to assemble for a meeting, and I was like "Yeah Right!"....but had to go....and then it came down to that moment! An event was cancelled that day because of the lack of time, and those guys wanted a slot on the 3rd day....and ya, 3rd day being the final day....I had 3 of my events in the Quadrangle, and 1 in the auditorium, and I whispered, "Oh Shit!" I knew they were gonna ask me for my slot, and yea, I was right....even the chairman asked me to give them a slot....I tried to fight....but didn't win....I settled for the crumb when I was being offered the entire cake! Lol! The day finally ended, and I was in my bed....Finally!

The next morning came in quite fast....and I was again on ma feet....and upbeat and running! The second day was a little relaxing....had to deal with only 5 events, and every one did go well! One of the events called JAM had an issue when participants decided to quit while we were at it....and that was because of a wrong decision by the judge....but then we settled it....they left anyways....and later came to me with a chocolate! Hehe....I just admired the gratitude! Lol! That night was when I met Juggy D, and DJ Sumit Sethi....though I cudnt interact with apna Juggy Paaji, I sure had a word, and loads of it, with DJ Sumit....This guy is so down to earth. I asked him for an autograph, and he goes like "No autographs yaar, we are all friends!" Hehe.He was impressed when I recognised his shoes' brand as "Gucci", and then it was time when he started saying, "Gagan yaar....bahut mehange aa gaye....for 35 thousand Bucks!"....and then he asked me a question, "Gagan....ek baat bata....am I dressed well?" And I was like, "WOT? You look very Hot sir!" Lolzzzz! But this guy is pretty amazing and very talented. He is simply not a DJ alone, he is a musician and a performer too. And ya, he sure showed the crowed a few Moves....:) And that is pretty amazing. It was like the most fun I had ever had! Truly! After they performed and left, I was like floating....I was tired and sleepy and hungry! I had my food, sat with the management in the meeting, and then left....and ya, when I returned and checked the clock, It was 1 AM!

The third and the final day began softly....and then gradually gained its momentum. No technicalities as such for me....I knew I was doing a fine Job! And then came the time of decision making....One of the events very appropriately titled, "Lead India" fell short of participants, and only 20 showed up....we were supposed to have a written test as an elimination round, but then, what is the point of eliminating when there are only 20 people???? And so....I declared that we are not going to have eliminations after the first round....This decision was opposed and not liked by my sub-heads, and some participants alike....but I was firm, and stood by what I had said....this decision soon started seeming as a wrong one for me....it was almost 2 hrs, and we were still not done with half of the people yet....and the next event was to be held in the same room....I chose to decide once again, with the help of Shiv (My Best friend, and sub-head) ofcourse, and changed the venue of the upcoming event....everything then suddenly settled....Lead India went on for almost 5 hours, and attracted the praises of everyone! It was by far the best event that took place....let me not count JAM in for its hype was merely controversial! Baatuni, the hindi version of JAM was again controversial, not because the participants walked off....but because there weren't any participants at all! Now that is just sad....and a little effort brought in a total of 6 blabbers!

By the end of it, I was done with my events, and now awaited for the announcement of what team was the best! I had some really good chances, because I knew that every one in my team had done a fairly good job, and so I was anxious....and ya, when the announcement was made, I was sad and disappointed, for it was given to the Hospitality people....But it was OK....I knew "Jo dikhta hai, wahi bikta hai" and so I settled with whatever I had! But the real surprise was yet to come! Some people from a different college came to me and asked if they could have a picture with me....awww! That was so sweet, and such a huge complement for me in itself!!!! Then later, some more people came and said thanks for all my help....I was like WOW....and then....the best part is still to come....2 guys came and gave me roses saying, "We don't care if its hospitality or whatever, we just want to say that you were the best!" And that was all I ever wanted to hear! All these guys are still in touch, and so am I....for one hardly gets to meet such genuine people....who appreciate what you do....rather than what you want to!

That night my cell phone kept beeping....for I was getting messages like anything....people were thanking me, and I was thanking them in return, for it was because of them that all this was possible....It was the best feeling....Simply The Best!

To tell the truth, I think I would have fallen big time had it not been the constant support of my Sub-heads and my team members....each and everyone was extremely supportive and helpful....and I take pride in saying that each and everyone also got a heavy dose of my anger! :p But it was fun....every moment of that entire thing was totally worth it....all the troubles, and the tiredness and the pains....all worth it! And when it comes to thanking my team, how can I forget to thank my Faculty incharge....General Nikhil Kumar was less of a faculty, and more of a friend to me during the entire episode. Whenever there was a tough time....he was there to sort it all out....Yes, I am proud he was my faculty incharge, and yes, I sure am proud that I built a nice team, and that my team supported me at all times, and ya, I so am proud that I met a whole bunch of people just like me....

And for the people who are still thinking of venturing into unknown waters....please go ahead and try it....you never know what's in store for you....you might end up discovering a treasure chest for all you know!