Thursday, July 10, 2008

A Lovely, Special and a long awaited Reunion

So, it is after a long that I am writing. And the reason is simple enough....I needed time to heal from my misery, which I proudly have. I can now proudly say that I have Finally Got Closure!

Anyway, I am enjoyin07-07-2008 19;38;275g my vacations these days, and so was browsing the old photo albums of my childhood. That reminded me of how blessed I have been by God to get so much love from everyone around me. Its not everyone who gets all that love, and care, and I just feel really Blessed.

I was seeing the pictures, 07-07-2008 13;27;3315and came along the picture of a birthday party of a boy named Bryan Birget. Now, Bryan was like my best friend when I was young. We used to hang out all the time. The moment the day began, we were either rushing to school, or if it was an off, we were getting ready to hang out at either one of our places. We would leave only at around 6 PM in the evening, because that's when our dads used to return from their offices. Anyhow, a time came when the Birget family got transferred and moved to Taiwan. I was around 10, and Bryan was 9. A little later, we lost all modes of getting in touch.

Time passed. Memories became elusions, elusions became fogginess, fogginess became mist, for the time had now come that I believed we will never meet again. But this belief couldn't kill the determination of finding one of the best things that had ever happened to me. Soon Internet came into existence, and the power of Google could not be undone. I kept trying, every now and then punching in the keywords "Bryan Birget" in Google, but found no results. Soon a time came when I posted our pictures on Orkut, and wrote in the captions that I had lost Bryan and missed him. Ideas and comments started pouring in, and then one day, one of my friends asked me to search him on FaceBook. I did, and alas! I had found a Bryan Birget!

After 13 yCapture ears, I finally had a profile that belonged to someone named Bryan Birget. I wasn't sure whether it was him, because the picture wasn't clear, and I wasn't authorised to enter the profile. So, I messaged him, taking my chances. I felt the stakes were high, but I had to take my chances. I wrote to him, saying, "I know it would be weird reading this, because its weird for me writing it too. But I got to do this. I had a friend named Bryan, and I am looking for him. My Bryan's Dad worked in Nestle, and his Mom's name was Lu, and ya, His Birthday falls on March 13. So, if you are him, please reply back! Regards, Gagan".

I sent the message, and waited for a reply. It was not more than 30 minutes later that my MSN messenger window popped up saying "You have a new message from Bryan Birget". I was excited, and a little scared too. I wanted him to be the Bryan I was looking for. I opened my mail, read the first line, and closed my eyes to Pray. The first line read: 'Oh My God! Gagan, I am "your Bryan".'

I was so happy, that the happiness of finding a treasure chest felt nothing in front of it. I replied to him, and soon we were chatting. We were onto each other for a little more than 2 hours, we had a lot of catching up to do. I realised we've changed, and grown since the last we knew each other.n646085593_2640514_9293 He used to be this tiny little person, and now, he stood 6'2 feet tall. But our hearts hadn't changed, and we still loved each other. After I finished talking to him, I called his Dad and Mom up and talked to them. It was getting so much better minute after minute. I was convincing them to pay a little visit to India, and they agreed on planning a trip. I don't know when that will be, but I sure want it to happen soon, and trust me, when that happens, there will be a picture of him and me together, right here!

I had a beautiful day because I've finally found My Long lost best friend, I've found My Bryan. AnImage020d I know, that I will finally be able to sleep a good sleep tonight.

55 comments:

Anonymous said...

hey gagannn..this is awesome stuff man..findin a lonnnnng lost fren..n hw!! as i jus told u a few minutes back,i got excited 2 :D..n u knw wha..it sumhw brought genuine smiles here :)..coz thinz lik these go on to prove tht line frm the song sing is kinng :D-"dil agar sachcha ho rab sab karde setting"..so wen the feeling(the bond ) is strong n genuine..its all good.."always" :)..Cheers bud..hope u guys go a long way togetha!!

Unknown said...

1 word to describe -"AWESOME"...dats it !!

Princess13 said...

al i wannna say is tht Bryan is Hotttttttttt........is he single by ne chance....um ready to sacrifice my love for him...lolzzz?..

Princess13 said...

achha jokes apart...u must b like over flowing with emoz ryt???? whoa i wish u cud hv been here naaa gagan....encounter must hv been overwhelming....sp d way u hv put it all in ur wrds...kewl..i hope this frndhp stays till eternity....Bryan is lukyy guyy...and um a luky gurl..:P

Unknown said...

Well....Puneeta....so that u may know....Bryan is special to me....and ya, he is cute....but he aint single....maybe u can kind of prick on sum other cute friend of mine, or maybe me, watsay? Lolzzzzzz

Unknown said...

too gud.. gagan sir.. fr d frst tym.. dint feel sad afta reading ur blog.... dint fel nostalgic... felt genuine happines... may god bless u n ur frn !!!!

Anonymous said...

Hmm....Gagan, you know, reading this post made me cry....I mean....I want someone like that in my life....a best friend. Bryan is so lucky to have you as a best friend....I mean....anyone will be so lucky to have you as a friend. And I am a bit surprised knowing that you called someone ur best friend, since u refer to most of the friends as Friends, or good friends, and I always heard from you that there is only one person for you who can be ur best friend....I am so happy to know that Bryan is that special person. He is one lucky guy, and he must know this....Bryan, if you are reading this....You are the luckiest guy in the world to have a friend like Gagan. I wish you guys meet soon, and we get to see your picture together. All the best....I hope you guys remain best friends for ever and ever!

Anonymous said...

One more thing that I forgot to mention....I am happy for you....I really am....But I am jealous too....lol....I am jealous of you and Bryan! Haha....But I still wish you good luck!

Anonymous said...

Wonderful, simply wonderful. I think that a movie can be made out of your story....and the movie will click really well with every generation, because everyone has a special best friend in his life. Bravo Gagan, and Congrats. I genuinly hope that you guys meet up soon. Do write about the meeting too. We would love to read about that too....

Anonymous said...

Well, I tend to slightly differ from other people's comment....I think the story of you and Bryan is good, but it is too good to be true. I know I have no reason to doubt it, I think that you should write a book on your story. I know I will love to read it. I don't know you as in person, but after reading the post, I want to say that I will kill to be your friend! And ya, I agree with someone who said Bryan is luck to have you.

Unknown said...

Well, Thankyou guys for saying all these wonderfully kind words, and thanks for all your wishes for me and Bryan. I am sure that if Bryan reads this, he will feel the same way I am feeling. And for some of you who said that Bryan is lucky to have me as a friend, I want to say that I am even luckier to have him, and all of you guys as friends. So thankyou all for making this happy moment a lot more happier!

Unknown said...

seriousli dis is one f d fairy tales kum alive....
had heard abt mircles n oll.. but nvr actually seen 1 hapin..
cheers 4 d sprit of longgin 4 dis dream f ur frnd mre dan of acuali findin him across...


ps:- dis actuli is gud....!!!

Anonymous said...

WoooooW.... U Knw Wht they say it right u get it all paid sooner or later n here only for gud things u do in ur life.. i tld u earlier also that u gonna get the good soon a!!! cz life iz indeed awsm!!!
Godbless u and Bryan and u get to meet him asap. Gosh so many things to discuss.. oh comeon start the prep today nly.. start makin that long list wht all all all to share!!! All the best!!!
i too feel blessed aftr givin u the facebook idea!!! dekha!!!
-KeeP Rockin-

Anonymous said...

awwww....lemme wipe my tears first..:) hehehe..its gr8 to hve someone back wid whom u spent some of the most joyous moments of ur lyf...n if dat person is frm ur childhood(langotiya yaar)...nothin can be more special..coz langotiya frnship is the most honest frnship which doesn't hve place for ne give n take....teri is post ne mujhe mere bhi kuch frns yaad dila diye...u r the lucky one to hve him back...n wen he'll be here use puneeta se zaroor mila dena.....dekh ke pata to lage puneeta 6'2" tall bande ke saath kaise jamegi...hehehe
"AWESOME" post

Unknown said...

Hey....too good..u really know how to keep the friendship..keep up the good spirit. TAKE CARE..PRITI

Anonymous said...

Waah! This is some good stuff....Its like more of a fairy tale story. Haha....the one with a happy ending. Bryan, You are one lucky Man! By the way, Gagan, everyone here is saying that Bryan is cute and hot....I think you are cuter and hotter! You should have posted more pictures of youself! Haha!

anusha said...

Aww.. that was really cute! ..but you knw i have had so many of such overwhelming reunions with long lost friends.. that i just don't consider it a miracle.. its just that u r one of the few lucky ppl destined for such pleasure! and that is what is special! so congrats! may you have many many years of togetherness...perhaps unto eternity! cheers!!

Anonymous said...

woohoo gagan....dat was smething!! gave me goosebumps!

Anonymous said...

Dude, all I got to say is that Bryan is really lucky. And if he doesn't realise this, then its too bad for him. I hope your friendship visits eternity, and comes back for another round of it.

Anonymous said...

Everyone is saying Bryan is lucky....I say that your friendship is lucky to have survived. But what I really want to ask is how do you think your friendship will now progress....you must have gotten ur own set of friends in India, and Bryan must be having his own set of friends in whatever country he is....Do u actually think u will ever be comfortable again as you guys were back in ur childhood? and another imp question....What if Bryan doesn't care enough? Anything could happen you see....But I liked what u wrote, its nice seeing that such friendship exists.

Anonymous said...

Wel....I actually want to know what this Bryan has to say on this....he should also leave a comment!....and ya, it wud be great if he actually answers the above questions himself....!

Anonymous said...

Wow! There are a lot of comments..
Anyway, hi everyone! I'm Bryan. It came as both a shock and a surprise to actually have finally talked to Gagan after all those years, it has been 13 years that I haven't seen or talked to him. All that I can say is that I am very happy to actually have had the pleasure to speak to him once again.
It is true that after 13 years and no contact people change. But, I always thought that one day I had to see my best friend from India.
Which is why I will try my best in the near future to visit Gagan in India. It will be a very moving reunion! I know that he has his set of friends and I have mine and that times have changed but then again certain things don't normally change if your friendship is strong. I know that I am a lucky person to have someone like Gagan!
I would like to thank all of you for your nice comments! Gagan, nice blog by the way!
Cheers!
Ch

Princess13 said...

@ BRYAN .....(I hope u read it CAREFULLY)
well i appreciate the way u hv wrttn bout ur feelngz for gagan..But mind u, there r some genuine ppl who don't change, and gagan is defintly in that category, ow y wud he take soo much pains to search for ur profile..???? the same effort cud hv been made frm ur part as well na???
ok leave it...twas a bit of nagging, lolz
and BTW BRYAN y was it like a shcok for u to chat wid gagan all ova again??? shock is sumffin "NOT LIKED STUFF" then y so?? hmm??? hmm???
oops um srry if twas again a "taunt"
dnt wrry its just d begining....we hv a loonng way to go...!!

Unknown said...

@Punita....I like the gesture....i mean its nice that u r kinda looking after me here....but I dnt think saying that Bryan didnt try looking for me, or forgot me is right....I mean, had he forgotten, he wudnt have recalled and gotten back to me the way in which he did....and yes, well, when i comes to being best friends, I dont think there is this thing of who makes the first move or anything....the end point is to find each other, n stay connected, and I think that he will definately do that.

Unknown said...

@Bryan, thanks for commenting. People are saying you are just like me....and that makes me feel really good and proud. Cheers to Punita, who was the first to convey the message! And ya, we sure are gonna meet soon....and I just can't wait!

Princess13 said...

same here BRYAN .....i just can't w8 to meet u mannnnnn.....so whn r u planng to pay a visit to our dear INDIA???.....so plan out soon....we (Me and gagan, ME "more emphasised") r missng u like helllll

Anonymous said...

Well well well....Look who finally spoke into the silence....Mr. Bryan Birget himself! Well....Atleast I am relieved now to know that Bryan feels the same way as this Gagan does, somewhere down the line! I mean....Its great to finally know that their friendship WILL exist till eternity! Cool, eh?

Anonymous said...

I am speechless after reading what Bryan had to say! I filled his minds with a lot of weird questions, and he definately has shut my mouth now! Way to go Man!

Anonymous said...

I can't describe how jealous I am now, I am furious! I mean, I thought Bryan wouldn't be thinking the same way as Gagan was, you know how time changes things and stuff. But this Bryan turned out to be almost like Gagan. I mean, I am happy for you guys, but I thought if it didnt workout between you guys, maybe I could be Gagan's best friend! Lame, I know, but its worth a shot!

Anonymous said...

Yeah, I think Aaditya is right. I mean, I also said that their story seemed to good to be true, but after hearing Bryan's version, it sure seems to be true! I hate it when I am wrong. Hey Bryan, a quick question: Is Gagan really your best friend, or are you just saying all this to make him feel good? I know its extremely straight forward, but somebody had to ask this question, right?

Unknown said...

@Shekhar, Aaditya: I don't know whether I should feel happy for your interest in me and my friendship, or should I feel sad for you guys doubting my friendship with Bryan. You guys are welcome to be a friend. There's always room for one more! And Shekhar, I will make sure Bryan answers your question. So stay glued!;)

Anonymous said...

Very well said Gagan. I am proud of you for kicking Shekhar's and Aaditya's ass! And Bryan, I love you! Haha.

parul said...

this is simply amazing!!!well done gagan!!:)

parul said...

n i totally agree with punita's first comment!! :P he is cute!! :P

Anonymous said...

Awesome story very intrestinG...reminds me of my friends who are lost sumwere n i never tryd to get them back but u did Salute Salute...u r my sucessosoRR!

Anonymous said...

Ohh!!Goshh!!....Gagan sir...first of all I must tell you that....I've seen all of your old photo albums on orkut and I just loved dem....
now cuming back to the BLOG post and the "VERY SPECIAL" reunion....the first thing that happened to me after reading it was that I wz trying to feel the way you must have felt and think the way you must have thought...and I can say that it must have been very difficult to describe....
But,both you and Bryan have done a really good job of describing your feelings.....
It is THE GREATEST THING to get in touch with such a SPECIAL friend esspecially after such a long tym...I wud love to be in ur shoes and have such a friendship but more than that I wud love to be with you guys when you MEET FOR THE FIRST TYM AFTER SUCH A LONG TYM...(gagan sir humko bhi bula lena jab bhi aap bryan se milo)......
i must confess that i have so much to say n share but i guess this is a small place to do so....
so gagan sir,we will cont. whenever we meet the next tym....
I WISH ALL THE HAPPINESS TO YOU,BRYAN and YOUR FAMILIES....and a reunion in INDIA asap...cyu,TC

Shravan Vijayaprasad said...

hey gags, mahn I know the feeling of getting back a long lost friend!! Hope I see a photo of you both together on this blog as soon as possible!!

Mate, have fun and let your friendship live long!!!

Unknown said...

@Varun
Yours is the most special and the best comment I have recieved so far. And I thankyou for that. And yes, when Bryan and I do meet, I will make sure that you are with me. Thankyou for all the support.

Unknown said...

@Shrav Thanks brother for appreciating. And yes, once I meet Bryan, I will post our pictures for sure, and will definately let you know about it. Thanks for all your good wishes for me and Bryan.

Anonymous said...

What a nice story, I am very happy for both of you, that you found each other again. I remember the good times you had together in Moga. What fun it was, well done!

Anonymous said...

What a nice story, I am very happy for both of you, that you found each other again. I remember the good times you had together in Moga. What fun it was, well done!

Unknown said...

@Gaby Aunty:
Thankyou for such kind words, and wishes. It was because of you that Bryan and I met at the first place! And yes, I remember all the fun we all had while in Moga. Miss those days so much! :)

Arun said...

gagann.... that was so heart rendering and made me feel so good man.. really... i feel elso happy reading that!! i've been lookin for a freind fro a long time "Rakesh Nair".. but there r thousand's of people by that name :(

rainboy said...

ssa g

i thought this only happened in those stories in movies and novels.
Nice to know things happen.So when are you guys meeting up??

Unknown said...

@Arun PK: I am so glad that you feel this way....There is no feeling that can compare to the one when you find a long lost friend....and trust me....the key to find one is to always keep looking....I am sure you will be able to find yours too....and I wish you all the best!

@V: ssa V, I really really appreciate that you liked my story....well....Bryan is working really hard, and is trying his best to make it a point to visit me as soon as possible. He ill be graduating in december, and I am hoping to see him soon after that. His parents are making a plan too. Lets hope that it works out soon....I just cant wait to meet MY BRYAN! :)

Yes, true friendship stories can be better than the best fictional novels and films. :)

rainboy said...

//true friendship stories can be better than the best fictional novels and films.//


they sure are. :D
i am happy today..that's something out of ordinary for me .

tc bro

Unknown said...

@V: ssa V.
Imust say....anything you comment on my blog....i always end up smiling after reading it....so thankyou for believing in me, and making me smile yet again!
Luv Ya!

rainboy said...

my pleasure m8..

keep smiling bro. well here's question when i your b'day bro,???

Unknown said...

@V: *smiles* Yeah....My birthday is on the 24th of march every year....how abt u?

rainboy said...

now i know..why i feel a connection here...welcome my Arian Brother...
mine's on 3 rd april..just two days late..lol

add me..on face..

http://www.new.facebook.com/profile.php?id=516168974

Unknown said...

@V: Haha....yeah....there sure is a connection. But I dont think its because of our being an Ariean....its more because we are good people....with similar thinking. ;)

And yes, I have added u. :)

Mampi said...

aww, that was a cute story.
Hopped on from RiverSoul's. What a great xcitement to find someone from your childhood.
Will read more later.

Unknown said...

@Mampi: Thankyou for visiting my page. And thank you for appreciating. Hope to see you back really soon.
Cheers!

Anonymous said...

@ PUNITA
Hey i found the website by taping bryan's name on google and I had already heard about you Baboo! great article about my love!
but PUNITA sorry for you MY Bryan is already in love...and Iwon't let him go lol it has been almost 3years now and we are in love and happy! if things change Ill let you know ;)

Unknown said...

@Anonymous: Is this you Natacha? If this is you, which I am pretty sure that you are, I must say that I am surprised and so happy that you wrote to me. I have heard so much about you too....and am glad that you haveatleast heard my name. :) Anyway....I agree with what you say to punita, and dont worry...I complete back you on that. May you get what you wish for....Bryan is indeed a great guy! :)